Monday, May 31, 2010

A Day of Remembrance ~ Memorial Day 2010



Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
        ~From a headstone in Ireland

Spirit, that made those heroes dare
To die, and leave their children free,
Bid Time and Nature gently spare
The shaft we raise to them and thee.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

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The photos in the above collage were taken today the 31st of May 2010 at the El Camino Memorial Park where my Oma was recently buried (26 May 2010). 

Unfortunately, we know too many who are buried there. Terry Bennett, my husbands partner on the SDPD (lower right photo), who was killed while on duty on the 26th of June 2003.  Our beloved brother-in-law, Keith Tiffany, who was also killed while on duty (SDPD)  in 1981.  

Center photo: The Veteran's Memorial
Photo to the left, plaque reads: Capt. C.W. 'Nick' Carter Memorial
Dedicated by O.K. Ingram Ship
V.F.W. 1774
THE MEMORY OF VETERANS AND THEIR FAMILIES
November 11, 1967

Photo right and center, bares the names of our fallen officers, Terry's was the last to be etched on that stone.

Visited Oma's gravesite (upper left hand corner).

Our family is remembering on this day, the many we have lost as they served our country to keep our freedom alive...our fellow police officers we have lost while they were serving to protect us. You will always be in our hearts.


                                                                             



Friday, May 28, 2010

Webex, Thomas, and Finding Hans ~



I want to share a very unique and wonderful genealogy research session that Thomas MacEntee over at High-Definition Genealogy, helped mom and I with by way of Webex and Skype.

As you know, my grandmother, Liselotte Haf (1913 ~ 2010) of 96 years passed away on the 5th of April 2010. She never knew who her father was. The story is that my great grandmother, Margarete Kaiser (1888 ~ 1972), met a man in Zurich while working there. Margarete Kaiser dated this man for a bit and then became pregnant. When Margarete told him (Hans) that she was pregnant with his child, he disappeared.

No one in our family knew his name or whereabouts (so we thought). When I started my genealogy journey, I pretty much figured I would never know that part of my family and everything would stop with my Oma!

When mom flew back to Germany to handle the funeral and cremation arrangements for my Oma, she found a genealogy goldmine amongst Oma’s belongings . . . lucky for me! Some of the documents are incredible but you can imagine my excitement, surprise, and joy when mom and I came across a document that held my Oma’s natural father’s name: Hans Bacher!!! I was doing the genealogy happy dance all over the place. This particular document is a court child support order. Our Margarete, my great grandmother was attempting to hold Hans responsible. When officials attempted to serve him, Hans was nowhere to be found.

I immediately started to do a search on Ancestry.com. I did find a few hits but was unable to access them due to the fact that I only have the U.S. subscription with Ancestry, not the World Deluxe membership. Mom wanted to get me a months worth…I said, “no, let me see what I can do on the Internet and will ask a few genealogy friends". I emailed Thomas asking for suggestions. Right away, Thomas, as Thomas always is, was right there to help and I cannot thank him enough. Thomas suggested hosting a “virtual genealogy research session.” Here’s what we did:


  • Thomas used Webex to host a virtual genealogy research session, where he could pull up Ancestry and other resources on his computer and have mom and I follow along! It was amazing. Webex not only allowed Thomas do a presentation, but also allowed us to see each other on web cams. 

  • Rather than use Webex’s audio which can be expensive depending upon the type of subscription, we used Skype so we could both talk about what we were seeing on screen.


  • One of the benefits of this technology, since Thomas and I are not native German speakers, is that Mom was able to translate the text as we searched. Had we done this alone, we wouldn’t know if we were finding the correct records. Mom and I would ask Thomas to enlarge records and determine if they were valuable in trying to find the parents of Hans Bacher, my Oma’s father.


  • Not only did Thomas capture each of the records as an image, but he also maintained a research log during the two-hour period so we could build proper source citations later. We also saved links to our finds in case we ever had to revisit them for more information. I knew and understood the value and how important it is to cite and source, and it is something I truly struggle with but I was amazed at how much I learned from Thomas and doing this as we went. I was able to get a better sense of “how to” and even more so, how very critical it is to cite and source your research always. A spreadsheet of this sort was an incredible way to stay organized and cite each and every detail needed to properly source your research. 

While we can’t be certain, it appears that the Hans Bacher listed on the child support document could be the same Hans Bucher who lived in the Chicago, Illinois area and died in 1967. In order to prove this conclusively, we have decided to order Hans’ death certificate from Cook County hoping it could give us more clues as to his life in Germany and also where he may have disappeared.
What I will never know is: did my Oma know this and not tell us? Well Oma…I am going to find your father, my great grandfather!

Mom and I want to send a huge thanks to Thomas. What I learned in that two-hour session will never be forgotten . . . it was fun and exciting. He tells me that these are the types of services he is developing at his new company High-Definition Genealogy - and I can see how this type of “genealogical training” with the latest technology would be valuable to the community. Thomas is an amazing genealogist, always there to help and guide all of us…thank you Thomas for all you do for us.




                                                                                                          

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Liselotte "Oma" Haf 1913 ~ 2010 We Celebrate You Today and Always ~




The services for Liselotte "Oma" Haf are being held today the 26th of May 2010 at the El Camino Memorial Park here in San Diego at 1:00 P.M.  Deacon Bob Ekhamel officiating.

Oma was born  on the 19th of December 1913 and passed away in Augsburg, Germany,  on the 5th of April 2010.  Our family will be celebrating her life of 96 years and keeping her memory alive always. Oma was preceded in death by her husband, my grandfather, Adalbert Haf (1907 - 1968) and her two twin sons, my uncles, Helmut Haf (1940 - 1994) and Adalbert Haf (1940 - 2004). 
Her service will be a small Urn burial...but huge in our hearts.
Oma lived a long and fulfilling life...she will be so missed, we love you Oma. 

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Mom returned from Germany on April 15th, 2010 after having a beautiful mass and service for Oma in the Catholic Church I was baptized in, St. George's Church in Augsburg, Germany, where the Mozart Family had been connected for a long time.

Oma was cremated in Germany, her ashes were finally received last week by the El Camino Memorial Funeral home...Oma is finally home and at her final resting place, very close to me where we can spend as much time with her as we would like.  Oma had visited us here in the U.S. many times and loved it here. Her wishes were that this be where she would rest in peace...

I am sending out a huge Thank you to all of  my wonderful genea-friends, for your kinds words, love and support...you are the best.