Friday, July 21, 2023

2023 ~ Remembering My Beautiful Mom ~

Elfriede Haf 
21 March 1933 ~ 21 July 2010 
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"But behind all your stories is always your mother's story, 
because hers is where yours begins." ~ Mitch Albom 

This quote was found on fellow Family Historian, Dawn's @modernheirloom 

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On this day, thirteen July's have come and gone since my beautiful mom passed. I say this every year, but it just doesn't feel like thirteen years ago, it feels like yesterday to me - still. 

Mom's passing has affected me significantly. None of us expected it and it is still hard to believe she is not here with us. Life just hasn't been the same but I know she would want me to keep on keeping and that's what I try to do.  I think of her everyday, feel her in little things (and big things too) that I do in my daily life. The older I get, I see her in me more and more and I am happy that I am very much like her in many ways. I miss her so much, more than words could ever express. 

This photo of my mom is one of my very favorites of her. I believe (not 100%) that she is pregnant with me when this was taken. I remember her saying something about that when she gave me this photo. This framed photo sits on my counter in my kitchen next to her mom's (my Oma, Liselotte Haf née Kaiser ~ 1913 - 2010) recipe for one or our favorite German Christmas cookies. I get to glance at it everyday and it always makes me smile.  Love and miss you Mom ~ 

Monday, February 27, 2023

Remembering Opa Adalbert Haf on His Birthday Today ~

 

Adalbert Haf

b. 27 February 1907 ~ Kempten, Allgau, Germany

d. 9 February 1968 ~ Augsburg, Germany

One Hundred and Sixteen years ago today, my maternal grandfather, Adalbert Haf, was born to Emilie née Schallhammer (1871 - 1944) and Adalbert Haf, (1868 - 1952),  in Kempten, Allgau, Germany. 

I was very close to my Opa, I would follow him around constantly according to my mom. He has been gone for a very long time ~ I still miss him very much. Happy Birthday Opa! 



Thursday, January 5, 2023

Birthday of Great~Aunt Virginia Probst née Ijames ~


Virginia 'Jenny' Lee Ijames
5 Jan 1895 ~ Daviess Co. Owensboro, Kentucky
24 Jun 1966 ~ Louisville, Jefferson Co., Kentucky

Today, we are remembering my paternal great-aunt Virginia 'Jenny' Probst née Ijames, on what would have been her 128th birthday. I never had the privilege of meeting her but I am honored to have been named after her and her niece, my aunt Virginia 'Ginnie' Eimes.  We have a lot of "Virginia's" in our family. 


  

Wednesday, July 7, 2021

Wordless Wednesday ~ Franz Seraph Schallhammer


Franz Seraph Schallhammer
06 Sept 1864 ~ 10 Feb 1940
Pfronten, Ostallgau, Bavaria, Deutschland 
Photo credit: Cousin, Lars Kink

Franz Seraph Schallhammer, is my maternal second great-uncle, brother to my great-grandmother, Emilie Haf née Schallhammer (1871-1944) and the son of Johann Schallhammer (1840-1903) and Maria Anna Hartmann (1840-1886). 

A big thank you to my cousin Lars in Germany, for sharing this photo of our uncle, it's so great putting a face to the name and researching our Haf/Schallhammer together. 


Wednesday, January 27, 2021

1919 ~ Remembering Albert 'Fritz' Tabeling and Family ~


Lillie Mae née Pate and Albert 'Fritz' Tabeling  

Be it remembered on this day, the 27th day of January 1919, my paternal great-grandfather, Albert 'Fritz' Tabeling, born 25 Sept 1870, Davies County, Owensboro, Kentucky, passed away in Cloverport, Kentucky from the 1918-1919 Spanish Flu Pandemic. 

Five days earlier on Jan 22, 1919, my great-grandmother, Lillie Mae née Pate, born 1879 (Albert's wife),  passed away due to a miscarriage, complicated by the Spanish Flu . . . leaving my grandmother, Ines, aka Inez Tabeling, [1908-1983], and her five sisters, orphans. 

In June of 1919, their sister, Margaret 'Maggie' Tabeling, born 1903, died from Cerebral Meningitis. Typhoid Fever was listed on the death certificate as contributing to her death. The newspaper clipping below states, "Miss Tabeling Dies of Complications Caused From The Effects of Influenza", but wasn't listed on her death certificate. Maggie would have been 16 years old in September of 1919. 

My grandmother Ines and her sisters, Oletha [1902-1970], Josephine [1906-1962], Gladys [1910-1980] and Viola [1915-2003] were split up and lived with various family members. Oletha and Viola lived with their grandfather, Sylvanus 'Vaul' Pate [1852- 1939]. Gladys and my grandmother, Ines, lived with Mr. and Mrs. S.B. Laslie, and Josephine lived with Miss Annie Allen and brother, Mr. Herman Allen. 

The Breckenridge News 
Vol. XLIII Cloverport, Kentucky
Wednesday, June 25, 1919
8 Pages  No. 52

Albert, Lillie Mae, Margaret 'Maggie' and Infant Tabeling, are buried together at the Cloverport Cemetery, in Cloverport, Kentucky. Albert and Lillie's twins, Morgan [1913-1913] and Mammie [1913-1913], both died of Cholera . . . they are buried together at the Campbellite Cemetery in Tarfork, Kentucky. 


Note: The headstone in the photo above lists all of Albert Tabeling's family names. Never having a headstone or grave marker, my aunt Virginia [granddaughter to Albert] and her son, Jim, designed and paid for the headstone to have all their names honored in one place. Morgan and Mamie are buried at Campbellite Cemetery in Tarfork, Kentucky. Currently, there is no headstone or grave marker on their grave at Campbellite Cemetery. 

As we journey through our current pandemic, my thoughts frequently turn to my paternal great-grandparents and their children, the tragedies they went thru and the pain they endured ~ Rest in Peace my Tabeling family ~ 


Monday, February 3, 2020

1949 ~ Remembering Brook, Today ~



Brookery Louise Elliott 
1949 ~ 2005

Brookery Louise Elliott, would have been seventy-one years old today . . . she was born in 1949, in San Diego, California.

On the 9th of December, in 2005, we suddenly lost a beautiful soul. Brook was the step-mother to my daughter. She was creative, loving and I remember her smile. She will always be missed ~ Happy Heavenly Birthday Brook ~
                                                                 

Tuesday, October 29, 2019

Remembering Nana ~


Lucile Marie 'Nana' Eliot Farris
b. 29 Oct 1909 ~ Stockton, California
d. 10 May 2002 ~ Santa Clara, California 

Lucile Marie 'Nana' Eliot Farris, was born on this day in 1909, in Stockton, California. Nana, as us neighborhood kids called her, was like a grandmother to all of us. She was loving and kind and we were all so blessed for being in her life. Nana would have been 110 today!

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Nana, we love and miss you so much. 




Wednesday, September 11, 2019

Wordless (Almost) Wednesday ~ Windows on the World Matchbox

                       
New York World Trade Center, Windows on the World Matchbox. 
c. 1999 or earlier 

My mom (1933-2010) traveled frequently to New York for business and I recall her sharing with me that she had lunch at the World Trade Center. Mom used to collect matchbooks where ever she traveled to . . .  after she passed, I was going thru the basket of matchbooks, I found this very special treasure that I now have safely stored in an archival box.

We will forever remember that day and all those who lost their lives to the 9-11 terrorist attack and lives that have since been lost from the effects of that attack . . . never forget.


















Wednesday, August 21, 2019

Wordless Wednesday ~ Oma and the twins ~



This is my maternal Oma, Liselotte Haf née Kaiser~Saule
born ~ 19 Dec 1913 in Zurich, Switzerland
died ~ 05 April 2010 in Augsburg, Germany . . . holding my twin uncles,
Helmut Haf  ~ 1940 ~ 1994 and Adalbert  Haf  ~1940 ~ 2004  

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Friday, October 19, 2018

1902 ~ Richard Denton Ijames Death ~

In 1902, on Oct 19th, my paternal two times great-grandfather, Richard Denton Ijames, died of asthma in his home in Owensboro, Kentucky, and leaving his wife, Marjorie Ellen (Lovell) a widow with eight children.


  Richard Ijames Dead.
   Richard D. Ijames died of asthma at his home on Walnut street at 5:30 o'clock Sunday afternoon. He was one of the oldest citizens of Owensboro and resided here continuously for more than fifty years. Mr. Ijames was born near Gallatin, Sumner county, Tenn., September 15, 1829, and grew to manhood there. In 1851 he removed with his father to Owensboro, and shortly thereafter he was married to Miss Ellen Lovell.
   The deceased is survived by his wife and eight children, all of whom are grown. The funeral will be conducted from the home tomorrow morning at 10 o'clock and the remains will be interred in Elmwood.

Messenger-Inquirer (Owensboro, Kentucky, United States of America) · 20 Oct 1902, Mon · Page 1



Friday, August 31, 2018

1789 ~ 1879 ~ Remembering Cousin Capt. John Ijams ~


Remembering my third cousin five times removed, John Ijams, a Captain in the War of 1812 and one of Baltimore's "Old Defenders," . . . son of Plummer Ijams II (1748-1795) and Jemima Welsh (1760-1789).  Capt. John Ijams was born in Ijamsville, Frederick, Maryland on the 3rd of April in 1789 and passed away on the 31st of August in 1879 in Baltimore City, Baltimore, Maryland, one hundred and thirty-nine years ago today.


John Ijams
03 Apr 1789 ~ 31 Aug 1879
Source: Roberta Iiames and our
book, "The Ijames-Ijams Family History 

Plummer Ijams II, father of Capt. John Ijams and second cousin, six times removed to yours truly, a native of Maryland, moved to Frederick County and purchased a tract of land, "Paradise Grant" from the government which became, "Ijamsville." You can read a bit more →here← about my ancestors little town in Maryland.




Monday, June 18, 2018

1900~ 1941 ~ Birthday of Cousin Edgar G. Sirles ~


Remembering my first cousin, twice removed, Edgar G. Sirles (1900~1941) . . . son of James T. Sirles (1874~1930) and second great aunt to yours truly, Rosetta 'Rokie' nee Jarboe. Great-grandfather to my third cousin, once removed, Kerry (we connected via DNA) . . . on what would be his 118th birthday today. 


Happy Birthday Cousin Edgar ~ 

Photo courtesy of owner, cousin Kerry J. McGehee nee Berghuis
with permission to use ~ 


Friday, June 15, 2018

Postcards From Germany ~ Augsburg, Germany ~


Postcards From Germany Series ~ You can read the original story behind these postcards here ~

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Augsburg, Rathaus und Perlach bei Nacht
Aus Bildband:
Augsburg die Stadt des Pyrs u. Reichsadler 
Verlag W. Muller, Augsburg, von-Paris-Str. 11 Tel. 2 67 96
Foto: Hans W. Silvester 
ECHT FOTO
WM 15 536

Translation ~
Augsburg, Town Hall and Perlach at night
From illustrated book:
Augsburg the city of Pyrs u. imperial eagle
Verlag W. Muller, Augsburg, from-Paris-Str. 11 Tel. 2 67 96
Photo: Hans W. Silvester
REAL PHOTO
WM 15 536 
Date of postcard: Unknown

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AUGSBURG
Maximillianstrasse mit Rathaus und Perlach
Hans Andres Verlag, Munchen - Foto: Hans Hartz

Translation ~

AUGSBURG
Maximilianstraße with town hall and Perlach
Hans Andres Verlag, Munich - Photo: Hans Hartz

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Augsburg
Rathaus und Perlachturn

Translation ~
Augsburg
Town Hall and Perlachturn

Photo from my cousin, Marion ~ Town Hall Christmas Market
The Rathaus and Perlachturn in 2016



                                                                          

Friday, May 11, 2018

Postcards From Germany ~

In 2010, when my mom, Elfriede Haf (1933-2010) passed away, I inherited her collection of photos, letters, postcards and greeting cards that she had received and saved from family and friends . . . postcards she purchased on trips that she collected and kept over the years . . . for a while, it was hard for me to go thru these items, I just wasn't ready . . . but now, I feel I am.  Mom was born in Augsburg, Germany and immigrated to the United States in 1956, leaving her entire family and embarking on a new journey in her life . . . she would fly back "home" about once a year.  Mom loved to travel, so I have many postcards she kept from her travels and received from family in Augsburg, Germany.

One of the most rewarding gifts I have received from these letters and postcards is where they were sent to, the many addresses we lived at, postmarks with the dates . . . truly a genealogical treasure chest . . . I then created a timeline of our homes and all those places we have lived . . . love timelines and mapping where we have been.

For the last few months, I have been scanning, organizing and focusing mainly on the letters and postcards . . . it's as if I am traveling to those far away places today. I thought it was time to share those postcards here on my blog ~ beautifully captured scenes of our beloved Augsburg and from her travels throughout Germany and other countries. I would have to say that most of her collection of postcards are from Augsburg, Germany but there is much to share from other beautiful places ~

Welcome to my blog series, Postcards From Germany ~

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Augsburg -
Wahrzeichen der Stadt:
Das Rathaus mit Perlachturm
von Elias Holl 
Foto: Verkehrsverein Augsburg e.V.  
-Nr. 113

Translation ~

Augsburg -
True to the city:
The town hall with Perlachturm
by Elias Holl

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2000 Jahre Augsburg
Dom St. Maria
Gotischer Bau auf romanischem Kern
Erste Weihe 807 unter Bischof Simpert
Domlange 113 m, Breite 40 m, Ostchor 28 m hoch
Bronzeportal mit 35 Reliefs, 11. Jh. 
altester Glasfensterzyklus der Welt, 11. Jh.
Foto: Traudel Buhler, Augsburg - Nr. 130 

Translation ~

2000 years Augsburg
Cathedral of St. Mary
Gothic building on Romanesque core
First consecration 807 under Bishop Simpert
Cathedral length 113 m, width 40 m, east choir 28 m high
Bronze portal with 35 reliefs, 11th cent.
Oldest Glass Window Cycle in the World, 11th Century.

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Romantsches Augsburg
Die beiden Wasserturme wurden vom 15. bis 17. Jahr-hundert erbaut. Im Hintergrund das Roste Tor, 1622 von Elias Holl als Wachturm errichtet, sowie der gotische 
Hochgiebel des Spitals.
Foto: Dr. Stefan Vogel - Nr. 147

Translation ~

Romantic Augsburg
The two water towers were built from the 15th to the 17th century. In the background the grate gate, built in 1622 by Elias Holl as a watchtower, as well as the gothic
high gable of the hospital.

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Der Goldene Saal
Im Augsburger Rathaus (zerstort im Febr. 1944) ist einer
der grossten historischen Rathaussale in Mitteleuropa. Der
Augsburger Matthias Kager war der Schopfer der reichen 
ausstattung (Lange 32, 5 m, Breite 17, 5 m, Hohe 14 m).
Aufnahme: Stadt Augsburg - Fotolabor - Nr. 160

Translation ~

The Golden Hall
In the Augsburg city hall (destroyed in the febr. 1944) is one
the largest historical town halls in Central Europe. Of the
Augsburg Matthias Kager was the creator of the rich
equipment (length 32, 5 m, width 17, 5 m, height 14 m).

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Augsburg. Stadt. Kunstsammlungen
Festsaal im Schaezler-Palais. 1767.

Aufnahme: A. F. Kersting, London
Deutscher Kunstverlag, Munchen Berlin
F 142

Translation ~

Augsburg City. Art Collections
Ballroom in Schaezler-Palais. 1767.

Photo: A. F. Kersting, London
German art publisher, Munchen (Munich), Berlin

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 Front

Back

The bag that I found this set of postcards in . . . Mom must have purchased
them on one of her trips home.



Thursday, April 12, 2018

Losing Memories to Alzheimer's ~

1930 Apr 25 ~ 2016 Dec 02




“I’ve been thinking a lot about memory, how much it defines
us. How much of our character is built from it . . . our personalities, our
loyalties, our souls, their response to what came before. We’re the sum total
of the connections we’ve made, and the people we’ve lost. Memories are the
building blocks of our identity, without them, who we are would be lost to us.”

Source: General Hospital  (Yes, I watch General Hospital, I have since I was in High School!)
Season 55, Episode 250 < link to watch online
Aired: March 30, 2018 ABC network
Epigraph ~ narrated at beginning of episode . . . dedicated to Alzheimer’s and one losing their memory to this awful disease) . . . also posted on my quotes and poem blog, Ginisology, My Book of Counted Quotes
Narrated by ~ General Hospital character, Sonny Corinthos
(actor: Maurice Benard)




Thursday, January 11, 2018

Throw Back Thursday ~ Adalbert Haf ~





1936 ca ~ Photo of my maternal grandfather, Adalbert Haf (front and center of photo) out mountain climbing with his friends. He loved mountain climbing in the Alps and loved the flower, "Edelweiss" aka, Leontopodium nivale. On a few of his mountain climbing trips to the Alps, Opa Adalbert picked several and mailed them to my mom, she preserved them and now I have them . . . I'm so lucky to be the keeper of these sweet treasures. 


Opa passed away in 1968 and mom put one of the Edelweiss flowers (on the right) next to his photo in her magnetic memorial album . . . I have scanned the entire memorial album and now in the process of re-doing it into an archival safe photo album. 

Adalbert Haf ~ maternal grandfather to yours truly ~
b. 27 Feb 1907 ~ Kempten, Allgaeu, Bavaria Germany
d. 9 Feb 1968 ~ Augsburg, Bavaria Germany 





Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Wordless Wednesday ~ Emilie Schmidt née Haf




Emilie Schmidt née Haf  ~ birthdate: unknown
Great Aunt and Godmother to, yours truly. 





Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Wordless Wednesday ~ Missing Mom ~




Elfriede Haf ~ 1933-2010 
Photo was taken in May of 1971, at our duplex home on White Drive in Santa Clara, CA.

1971 . . . Mom standing in our living room modeling her new jacket ~ I love this photo of mom, she reminds me of Jackie Kennedy. The art piece hanging above the fireplace, was created by my ex-husband, Jim. 


                                                                   

Tuesday, January 10, 2017

Tombstone Tuesday ~ Oelze Family Plot




Oelze Family Plot
(relatives of my great-great grandmother, Augusta Tabeling née Oelze)
Cloverport Cemetery
Breckinridge County, Cloverport, Kentucky
Wednesday, August 12, 2015 



Cloverport Cemetery
Breckinridge County, Cloverport, Kentucky
Wednesday, August 12, 2015






Saturday, January 7, 2017

Remembering This Day ~




b 07 Jan 1903 ~ Breckinridge, Kentucky
d 19 Aug 1989 ~ Breckinridge, Kentucky


Percy was born, 114 years ago today. He was born to parents, Charlie and Susan Ida Tabeling née Ryan. 
Percy H. Tabeling ~ 1st cousin, 2x removed of yours truly.


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Kresgang Haf née Franziskus
b 07 Jan 1805 ~ Betzigau, Oberallgau, Bayern, Germany
d 24 Nov 1841 ~  Betzigau, Oberallgau, Bayern, Germany

Kresgang Haf ~ 3rd great grandmother to yours truly.